MY FIRST ONE ...

Hi, I`m Anita and this is my first real post to become a blogger. I tried before to publish but I failed all the time. Now I feel, that this is my new way to express myself and reach my goals. These glasses are looking into the future, it`s a symbol of my new way to see life.

Life wasn`t easy for me the last few years and I decided to change my life completely. The first step is to change my mindset.

I don`t know what is your experience in this subject but I got lost a bit between the tons of videos you can find on YouTube telling you the only secret of life you need to adapt. Every time I saw a new video, I felt like "Yesssssss, that`s what I need" until I found the next different video and I felt the same. So I got confused and slowly I had to realize that unfortunately there are no secret recipes to become happy or successful. You can listen to any podcasts online that can help you to start thinking but the final solution is in yourself.

So how can we change? What is the best way to start? Honestly I feel that changing your mindset especially in my age is very hard. I went through lots of traumas, I have tons of good and bad experiences and it`s not easy just forget everything and turn around 180 degree. My life is very busy, sometimes to be able to meditate is a big dream for me. Just to be alone and relax for 10-15 minutes seems like having a Christmas present.

Are you in the same shoes? Welcome on board. I found only one working solution for myself and I can share it with you now.

After I set up my final goal and I was very proud of my vision board, I sit down looking at my papers and I had no idea how to start to manifest. How to become that person on my vision board? Because this woman was just very far from myself. So I started to think little to get there. What does it mean? Did you ever play Puzzle? Yes? so I made the same like playing with Puzzle. I broke that big picture called vision board into small pieces and I started to deal always with one little piece. Every day I try to look for new pieces I needed to complete the big picture. At the beginning what I did - because I know myself - I tried to push myself to do uncomfortable tasks. I was very behind with everything the last 1-2 years and I knew it`s impossible to finish everything in one day. BUT slowly by slowly I try to do tasks right away instead to push them front of me to gain time. It helped and now I`m getting every day closer to finish my things. Sometimes I am just surprised how could I make so many mistakes in the past and I remember only half of them but I can correct my mistakes. I cancel subscriptions I never used, I try to detect every single little details. The result? I am still not millionaire but I try to pay more attention on my financials, spending money wisely. Spending my time wisely. Living my life like this was my last day on that Earth. Select my friends and family because unfortunately I`ve gain lots of garbage relationships in the past.

So my advice is to you to try the same - take just small steps at the beginning and if you skip some days, don`t be hard on you. Just continue and that`s it. Try to make it as a habit to change. Try to imagine yourself every day as a new person you want to become. But not just this person, Also imagine yourself doing the little steps to get there. And most importantly, be totally honest with yourself what is your real goal. and dream big.

I hope you enjoyed my first post and I keep you posted every day how did I deal with this challenge. See you in the next post.